ChoosING Thoughtful Thank You Gifts

Most couples put a lot of consideration into the details of their wedding day. Wardrobe, flowers, music and food are just a few of the hand-selected accents that complement the celebration. While you may have specific ideas about the ceremony and the reception, it is important not to overlook the details that show your appreciation to all the helping hands.

Make a list of the people you would like to recognize with thank you gifts. In addition to the table favors, popular etiquette dictates that special gifts are generally given to both sets of parents as well as attendants in the wedding. Your list may be longer depending on the number of special participants in your event.

Presents for close friends and family members do not have to reflect the theme of your wedding or tie into the ceremony. You probably know these people better than anyone. So, choose a gift that reflects their personal tastes and interests, even if they are not necessarily your own. Take a few moments to relax from the hectic wedding plans and think about each person individually and your relationship with him or her to spark gift ideas.

Consider their hobbies. Sports fans may enjoy a gift certificate for dinner during a game at a popular sports bar. Athletes may appreciate activity-themed gifts like a ski resort lift ticket or a round of golf at the local country club.

If no particular pastime stands out, simply reminisce for inspiration. It is important that your gift convey the significant role this person plays in your life and not just in your wedding.

You can't go wrong with personalized items like engraved keyrings, ornaments, trinket boxes, candles or moneyclips.

For your female attendents consider: candles, jewelry, a cashmere scarf or baskets of bath products.

For your male attendants consider: pocket knives, cashmere scarves, leather wallets, leather gloves or tie clips.

Remember it is always considered fashionable for a couple to express gratitude before, during and after their special day. §
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