Avoid Honeymoon Pitfalls

A honeymoon should be the trip of a lifetime for both partners, full of romance and relaxation after months of planning a wedding. But so many expectations are built into a honeymoon that it can become somewhat of a disappointment. Here are some common honeymoon pitfalls and misconceptions and how to avoid them:

• Be honest with each other. If you go along with your mate's destination choice to appease him or her, it can lead to quarrels and resentment later on. Instead, choose a honeymoon together. If you want a beach and he wants museums, pick a location that offers both.
• Don't expect non-stop romance. It will take time to wind down from all of the wedding excitement, so make fun and relaxation a priority instead.
• Don't exhaust yourself by doing too much. Hopping across Europe in a week is recipe for stress. A better idea is to spend the first few days relaxing, then explore.
• Don't forget your sense of humor. Honeymoons occur in the real world where waiters spill soup and luggage gets lost. Laugh through the bumps and bruises and you will get your marriage off on the right foot.
• It's OK to be apart from your partner. Scout out the local cafes or collect shells along the beach while your new spouse naps or sunbathes at the pool.
• Bring along some extra funds. Even if you're going to an all-inclusive resort, be prepared for on-site expenses like international phone calls, gift shop items and laundry service. They can ambush any budget.
• Tell hotel staff that you're honeymooners. They may offer champagne, invite you to a newlyweds' cocktail party or even upgrade you to a suite.
• Don't keep just to yourselves. Other honeymooners might key you into hidden treasures, such as a romantic restaurant or a secluded cove not mentioned in the tourist manual.

Remember to take out vacation insurance. It will protect you if you must cancel your trip or if you can't travel due to weather or illness. §
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